Dear Christine,
I was in love with a guy for four years now, but since last year he has been acting very strange and seeing other women.
When I asked him about them, he did not deny them, but said he has doubts about me since he once saw me talking to a guy whom he suspected was having a relationship with me. This is not true. We are just friends and this guy knows I have a boyfriend.
Christine, he does not call or visit me anymore but tells me that if I call him, there is nothing to worry about. Should I wait on him until he gives up the other girls whom he can use?
– DM
Dear DM,
Pray tell me, wait for what? A guy who does not see the need to call or visit you and who is bent on running around with different women?
He is not only using them, he is using you. He has already reasoned that if he can accuse you of seeing someone else, he has licence to do what he pleases – including putting you on pause while making you feel guilty.
Do you seriously think he loves you the way you love him when all the while he is avoiding you?
Quit waiting around and get on with your life.
– CHRISTINE
