DEAR JOHN,
I am a young single man in my early 20s. I play both cricket and football competitively and make every effort to keep fit and healthy.
Over the last few months I have been approached by one of my co-workers, a married woman who is in her late 40s. She is the mother of three children in secondary school and one who is at university.
John, at first she was rather careful and I was not very sure since many of the things she said could have been misinterpreted, but recently we both had to work late and she cornered me in the gents room one evening and began fondling and kissing me.
To be honest John, I responded positively but it was not possible to do anything else there at work. My fear is her husband. I understand he is an ignorant man and would not be afraid to do me something if he found out that I got involved with his wife.
John she is a sexy, well-shaped, good looking woman and I am tempted to accept her offers of secret intimacy. As I said earlier, I am really afraid her husband may find out and do me some harm or injury.
Please tell me what I should do and how I should handle this situation.
– YOUNG COWORKER.
DEAR YOUNG CO-WORKER,
I do not know why you are writing to me. I am sure both you and I know what you are going to do. You must have heard that infants endure their infancy while adults enjoy their adultery.
Nevertheless I am going to reply to you and ask you to consider the following:
(1) Maybe this woman is desperate. Her husband could be impotent or her bedroom may be cold and uninviting. As a young fit sportsman, she may consider you as just the right man to satisfy her needs. My advice to you is to avoid this relationship and do not accept the offer.
However, something deep inside me tells me you are going to ignore my advice and drink from the cup that has been offered. If you do please tell no one. Keep it a secret and be a real man.
(2) Let me be the only person with whom you share this information. I do not know your name or your workplace so I will be keeping your undisclosed secret as a secret. Remember we are advised “Thou shall not commit adultery”, but if you do, and I firmly believe you are going to, please do not tell anyone. I beg you please protect that woman. If the husband is as you say he may not do you anything; he may take it out on her. Be a real man, do not kiss and tell.
(3) These days the term being used is “horning”. Remember you reap what you sow. One day you may marry. Now you can blow a horn but can you take the echo? Or better still, you may give the horn of a unicorn but may receive that of a reindeer. Please think.
– JOHN
