Women cheating more

By Sherie Holder-Olutayo | Wed, June 13, 2012 - 12:00 AM

The news is out, and men be warned. Women are cheating as much or even more so than you, and chances are you won’t know a thing about it.

While men cheat looking for sex or the thrill of a new conquest, women do it to fill the need for an emotional void. But that’s not all, some women cheat for revenge, boredom or the thrill of sexual novelty. But one thing is certain they are cheating more.

Perhaps women have changed, but like men they want to feel wanted and if men aren’t making them feel that way, they are liable to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere.

Gone are the days when a woman would suffer silently while her partner sought out his pleasures elsewhere. Call it payback, but today’s women are adopting the philosophy of what’s good for the goose . . . .

Our Facebook readers were quick to chime and give their opinions on the fact that women are cheating more. Here’s what some of them had to say:

Princess Neferua: Good for them equal the playing field.

Rawle Spooner: Is this supposed to be a surprise, only a fool won’t have known this fact. Women hide it well, the cover their tracks a lot better than most men.

Sharon Woolley: Why is it that they are willing to dice with death by not using condoms? If you are going to cheat on your man don’t cheat with your life.

Janine Greaves: Men and women cheat yes, but women also tend to be way smarter than men when cheating. Cheating is supposed to be kept hushed, men tend to have big egos and they will tell someone who will tell someone else and it snowballs from there . . . .

Wayne Codrington: That’s old news . . . . We all know women were doing dirt long time nothing new. I don’t think it’s being smarter I think it’s being safe has nothing to do with being smarter. Men really don’t care all about the hiding like women do. Women know if they get caught it could be death, men simply don’t care. Women think about being killed men don’t that’s all it is.

Sheer Elegance Drakes: The reality is both sexes cheat . . . in the past it appeared that men cheated more than women. Now it almost seems like an equal playing field where cheating is concerned. Both sexes are hurt by being victims of their partners cheating, they are hurt emotionally and in some cases they are hurt where their health is concerned. Both sexes are guilty here.

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Posted by RICHARD power 11 months, 1 week ago: Now this is a nice! juicy! subject lol! All over Barbados this scenario occurs day in and day out. Women are a lot smarter than men when it comes to this cheating game. When a woman gets ready for ya boy look out! Men have big egos that tend to trip them up all the time and our thinking that we are sexual kings is what brings us to our demise. Women are emotional and think long term when it comes to the cheating
thing. Bajan men brag and boast to one another about their
sexual exploits with all the blow by blow details! Women on the other hand do their demolition quietly and with precise
action based on how bad she feels that you disrespected her
and they also calculate the consequences of what they are about to do all in one lol! Men lets face it women put up with
our malfunctions in the bedroom alot just for the sake of our egos and our so called manhood even when our performance is not up to par because they love us and really do care for
us. We on the other hand tend to be selfish and self absorbed and think yeah! I'm the man up in here lol! That all comes into play when they get ready to do their thing! Guilty! the
gavel comes down hard! When men in Barbados find out they want to mash! up the place and lick up! everybody and
everything lol! We never think that while we're out doing
our dirty deeds! that she has finaly had enough and doing hers too! lol! Women can do a lot more damage if they had a mind to! But they love us genuinely they really do. So for you men that like to cheat don't say you weren't warned! lol! You might think your jet Li! lol! but you left Master Chang
at the house! Pick sense from that lol! peace.

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Posted by Karen Weekes 11 months, 1 week ago: It's not just today's women. This has been happening for years. I've known of some older women from generations back who would have a child with her husband whom he thinks is his but it actually isn't.

Yes women do cheat as well, regardless of whether it's right or wrong; the same as men. What makes it easier for women to get away with it is the fact that women cover their tracks better and everything is normally planned out in order.

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Posted by Jennifer West 11 months, 1 week ago: Both sexes cheat, women are just more private and creative but surely the question is -why? Just because both sexes does it, doesn't make it right! There are still a lot of people out there with principles and morals- both sexes!

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Posted by daneale o'neale 11 months, 1 week ago: This is a load of hogwash who is better than who,after all women cheat with men and men got a big ego,telling they friends about they conquest,so who say dee word won't get out.its just that men ego does be hurt,so they won't tell they friends. My woman got a man pon me.Men hurt most when it comes to these things,and woman its not pay back.its just stupidity open up yorself to the world that what it is.coz no one really know anyone.

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Posted by Carl Harper 11 months, 1 week ago: "WOMEN CHEATING MORE." Are women cheating "more than men" or "more than ever?" Based on reliable reports, women have now surpassed men in the cheating game - especially during lunchtime. Husbands and boyfriends have no clue that their women are eating more than a foot-long sub for lunch.

Women are also cheating more than ever, but this is not limited to doing it with other men. Some are engaging in same-sex liaisons and pleasuring themselves with the proliferation of sex toys on the market unbeknown to unsuspecting husbands and boyfriends. Some may argue this is as a result of men non-performance in the bedroom, revenge, filling an emotional void, or sexual novelty. Whatever the reason(s), women are going to great lengths to fulfill and explore their sexual desires and liberties, and they are doing it anytime and anywhere - more than ever before.

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Posted by yogi Ni 11 months, 1 week ago: Please, this is not news this was a known fact for many years. Stupes.

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Posted by shabizz asban 11 months, 1 week ago: From these comments you can tell who getting horn and who tekking horn and who giving horn.. so much horn. who dey fe blow dem?