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Dear Christine
Time to get out of relationship
Published on: 2/1/2010.
ON Wednesday, January 27, A.A.S. wrote about her nightmare with the father of her six children.
She is 38 and according to her:
"I've tried to mould, shape, roll and build this relationship that I think I am in.
"But right now it's more pain than happiness and truthfully, I am here only for the kids, that's how I see it".
A.A.S.. said that every time there was a disagreement he came home "smelling like sex" and sometimes she felt like killing him.
"I'm a good person. I don't need him to validate me, but I have to get out for my own sake", she said.
Here are some online responses for A.A.S.
YOU HAVE every right to believe in yourself and not depend on anyone to do that for you.
Every good parent, preacher or friend would encourage you to do just that. Forget about what Saint Luke or the duppy said.
Jesus never said anything negative for us to live by. He gave us faith. Amen.
* My sister in Christ look for a job and a place to go and carry on with your life.
You have proven that you can support yourself, you can do it in a new and peaceful surrounding.
Let no one steal your joy. Killing him will solve one problem and create many. You can do without this burden. Leave this man and leave soon.
Do not let him force you into a life of regrets. He will be dead and you will be still haunted by him.
You will have to remember what you did for the rest of your life, of course behind bars.
Your kids will also have to live with the jeers and accusations from cruel people for what their mother did . They will be without a mother and father.
Do not give this maggot this power over you.
You are a young woman, this is a new year, let it be a new start for you. It will be hard at first, but believe in God; he will see you through and place persons in your way to assist you.
Never let any one make you feel that you are bad or useless. You have the ACE here, get as far away as possible from this man. NOW!
- LILLY
*I sympathise with you in your suffering, but one word of caution, we should never say that we are good persons, let others be the judge. Luke 18: 9-14
- GUYANESE GIRL
2 comment found!
Reply to Guyanese Girl : 2/1/2010
To the Guyanese girl You need to stop giving advice. ya neva know u might be the one giving her man the sex cause that is all wunna come bout hey to do .CAUSE PROBLEMS IN RELATIONSHIPS If the woman is a good woman who d hell u is to say different.
: 2/1/2010
I commend the correspondent Lilly for her words of wisdom .This too shall pass.The year is still new and you can make good things happen foryourself .Love yourself first of all ,pamper yourself ,love your children and care for them as best as you
can .You were wonderfully made by God .Do not let this man or any one determine how happy or successful in life you will be .Start looking for a house and with God's help you will get one and you will be able to move on .Leave him and what was done to you behind .Try not to carry that baggage with you . Do no place your children to be ridiculed by society .He is not worth it ,As Lilly said you will be imprisoned and he will still be ruling over you in death .Leave him to God .I know that alot of people say that but God is not dead and some day that man will see what he had .Retribution does not have to take forty years to catch up with evildoers. At present when you have these bad urges to do him in leave that house ,take a walk ,go by a friend or someone you trust even if you have to sleep it off. He is not worth it .
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