Five years ago I lost a man I dated when he went off with another woman. At that time I took the split really hard. I had difficulty focusing, found it hard to sleep and lost quite a lot of weight because of the pain I was going through. I literally begged this man to come back to me but he never gave me the time of day.
After about three years had passed, I made friends with another man. He proved to be a real gentleman and everything was going okay between us until the old boyfriend came back into the picture.
He began phoning me, passing by my home and turning up at my work place to take me to lunch. Of course, I refused his invitations.
He told me he was sorry; that he realised his mistakes and he wanted a second chance.
Christine, I am being very honest when I tell you that I love this man. I never really stopped from loving him. In fact, things between us before we broke up were much better than with my current boyfriend.
On the other hand, my current boyfriend says he is willing to marry me but since boyfriend No.1 is back in the picture I am really unsure about marriage. What must I do?
– K.B
Dear K.B:
I think you need to take a time out. Sit back and look at both situations before you make a final decision. If you are not sure that you want to marry your current boyfriend, don’t do it. You’ll be miserable, unhappy and perhaps break his heart in the long run.
I believe that boyfriend No. 1 had his chance already.
However, I cannot tell you whom you should marry. Chances are neither of these men may be the one for you.
Wait! Don’t rush into anything. The answer will come.
– CHRISTINE
