DEAR CHRISTINE, Please tell me what to do. I have been in love with a man for the past 13 years. I have three children for him and I am pregnant with the fourth child.
I have been living in a house with him for six years and we were good until he put himself with a married woman. She and her husband are not together, and now this man is giving me horrors. He does not want to give his children anything. I have seen him many times with the woman in his car.
Christine, this man was not like that but he is busy minding his friends. Whatever they do, he must do also. He is 30 years old but the woman is much older than he is.
He has told me that if a woman sees him, likes him and has something to offer him, why should I worry when he still comes home to me? He says the woman is not his type and that he is just having fun. He also says that he is going to marry me.
Christine, the woman is no good. She is a wild cat and that’s why her husband left her.
I am sick and fed up with the life I am living with the man.
– B.C.
Dear B.C.,
If you are sick and fed up with this man who is openly unfaithful to you and neglectful of his children, why do you go on living this kind of life? You ought to be able to get some support for the children if you call on the law to help you do that.
You’ll have to make up our mind what it is you really want. It is not likely you’re going to stop him from having lady friends. So it’s either leaving or living with a situation that is not likely to change.
– CHRISTINE
