Alone every night while he sees other woman
PEOPLE WRITE TO YOU for advice and I am in need of some.
My problem is that I have a boyfriend who is 34. From the first time we met, everything was going well until he met a woman whom he now goes to see every night. I have to stay home alone.
I have done everything I possibly can for this man like washing, cooking and so on. I have spoken to him about this woman and he says he does not love any woman except me. He does not want e to leave.
I think that he is using me and although I love him a lot, I can’t take what he is doing to me.
I cry both night and day to ease the pain. I am 21 years of age.
I am waiting for your answer.
Do you call this a healthy relationship?
With his behaviour, I don’t see how you can say that you have a boyfriend. You do not.
He is a free spirit, seeing you when it suits him and seeing another woman every night. Would you do something like that to him? Of course not!
You’d want to spend as much time with him as possible, sharing whatever life has to offer.
The love he says he has for you is the kind that consists of meaningless words. There is no action to support it.
If this arrangement brings you happiness, all well and good – but I feel it is pointless to continue in a relationship that only brings tears night and day, cooking and washing.
You are a young woman. Love yourself and be kind to yourself.
Let him go.
It is the only way you will be able to see and find happiness with someone more worthy of your love and who will love and appreciate you in return.