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DEAR CHRISTINE: Don’t fall for married men

BEA DOTTIN, [email protected]

DEAR CHRISTINE: Don’t fall for married men

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Dear Christine,
I want to write my letter as a letter of caution to young women, who often fall for men who are already married.
I am 23 years old and met a man who told me he wants me as his girlfriend.
I have since discovered that he is married and has a child as well.
When I confronted him about this, he said it really made no difference, and I could still be his girlfriend. I began to wonder what kind of man he was.
Prior to finding out about his marriage, he told me he was living at home with his parents.
Now that I know the truth, I have no intentions whatsoever of getting involved with this man who really wants to have his cake and eat it too.
I just cannot figure out how long he was going to deceive both me and his wife. Doesn’t he know that Barbados is small and that news gets around eventually?  
Didn’t he think that sooner or later I would have discovered where he lived?
Christine, I know he has had relationships with others, because one girl confided in me that he did. He then left her out in the cold.
I want to warn young girls to be wary of married men and when they meet someone, take time to find out all they can about them. If they have to do their own investigations, they should do so.
Married men are not worth the pain they often cause.
At times it makes no sense whatsoever to keep them on a friendly basis.
I hope there is someone out there who will heed my advice.
– C.P.
Dear C.P,
You are so right. Young women have to be careful about getting involved with married men, who will lie their way into the hearts of these girls and before you know it, they are caught in a web.
These men have no intention of leaving their wives or children alone, but they’ll flirt as though they are free, single and disengaged.
On the other hand, and in all fairness, while it is easy to advise young girls to be careful, it is equally important to let them know that they have no right challenging married men to get involved with them.
They are actually some men who have to run from these girls, some of whom do not care whether the men are married with children, or not.
Many just want the quick sex, easy money, but no commitment to these men. After all, they do not have to wash, cook and clean up behind them.
Advice should therefore also be given to women out there to leave the married men alone, and to stop hunting them down.