Dear Christine,
I have this problem I’ll like for you to help me with. I am in love with a man who says he is in love with me. Yet, most of the time, he does not make any time for me. Yes, I know he is working, but why can’t he come to see me?
I know there are differences in the time we both work, but on evenings when he passes by my home, he tells me he is coming back, yet he never does. This happens quite often, yet he’ll call and tell me he loves me and not to worry about anything.
There are times when he promises I would have him for the entire weekend, but the weekend comes and goes and still he does not put in an appearance. Christine, sometimes a whole week goes by before I see him. Despite this, he will use the telephone to make those calls and promises of getting together.
If he does not have someone else, as he has told me, don’t you think that he should find time for me? This is driving me crazy and I am getting depressed. I wait at home many times for him to come, but he does not. What am I to make of this?
– DB
Dear DB,
I can tell you that if he is not coming around to see you, maybe you should go to him instead. This man may be a hard worker who needs time for himself after a day’s work,but does he work on weekends also?
I get the feeling he does not want to be with you, but is keeping you holding on because he does not have the guts to tell you it is over.
Perhaps, he is hoping you will get the message by his non-verbal actions of staying away.
You need to have a serious talk with him and ask him bluntly whether or not he wants to be in a relationship with you.
If he says “no”, although it will hurt, believe there is someone, somewhere so much better for you.
– CHRISTINE
