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DEAR CHRISTINE: What can I do to get her to like me?

BEA DOTTIN, [email protected]

DEAR CHRISTINE: What can I do to get her to like me?

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Dear Christine,
About two years ago, I wrote you a letter about a young woman who was working at a popular restaurant in Warrens, St Michael. I missed her for a long time and later understood that she was no longer working there.
About two weeks ago, I saw her working at a Government Department where I went to collect some barrels, which were long overdue.
This young woman looks even more beautiful and attractive. A man was trying to talk her into a lunch date in my very presence, but she did not budge. She seems like a hard nut to crack, but I am not giving up.
I made some enquiries about her and understand that she is single. I don’t want to blow it this time.
Last time I offered her a gift at Christmas and money to purchase a gift and she refused both.
I need your advice on how to approach this woman.
She has a well shaped body but that is not my only reason for trying to catch her attention.
I would like to start a relationship with her as I am also single. I hope she sees my letter as she would make my dreams come true.
Dear Phil,
While I do not have the how to manual for getting this woman to warm up to you. I’ll tell you this much, though, meeting a woman for the first time and offering her gifts and money is not the ideal way of telling her you would like to get to know her better.
As a matter of fact, it’s a huge turn-off for many women. I also hope you do not see her simply as a challenge – to prove you can crack this hard nut that she is proving to be.   
I can recommend that you try to make your intentions known through someone who knows her – perhaps the person who informed you that she is single.
If that does not work and you attempt to approach her in a gentlemanly manner, yet she still does not budge, it could be the clue that she is not interested in you.
Since you have not left any contacts, it is my hope, as I am sure it is yours, that she’ll see your letter and become aware that you’d like to become her “Mr Right”.