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DEAR CHRISTINE: How do I end affair with married man?

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DEAR CHRISTINE: How do I end affair with married man?

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Dear Christine,
Two years ago I fell in love with a man who is married. It was easy because he is a real gentleman. The more I get to know him, the more I want him for myself. I am 20 and he is 36.
I cannot bear the thought of him going back home to his wife and two children after he’s been with me. He said he felt the same way, but now he says he definitely will not leave them.
At first I got the impression that after we were together for a while he would decide that it’s me he wants to be with instead of his wife, whom he swears he no longer wants.
I find it hard to believe he loves me as much as he says because now I seem to be seeing less and less of him. For the past few months I only see him for a couple of hours each week.
I want to end the affair but I really do not know how to do so. I do not know why I allowed this thing to happen to me because I know other girls who were fooled by married men. What’s
the next step to take?
– Curly Sue
Dear Curly Sue,
Apparently, this affair ended a long time ago but you never realised it. From the time he told you he would never leave his wife and children for you, the affair was finished. He’s only holding on so he can eat his cake and have it too.
The next step for you to take is to let go completely by telling him you’re finished. It’s that easy.
Relationships with married men are invariably pointless and it is unfortunate that you did not learn your lesson from those other girls.
Now that you know what the score is, tell him it’s over. You’ve already wasted two years of your life. Don’t waste anymore.