DEAR CHRISTINE: You’re in for a heartbreak
How are you doing? Keep up the good work!
Why are men so cruel and heartless? I fell in love with a tall, handsome man who loves basketball. We were together for a year before I found out he was married and lived with his wife.
To my surprise, I also found out that he cheated on her many times, but she remains humble about his cheating. I have seen him now with another woman who drives a red car.
I am writing this letter to let her know he doesn’t want her. He will lie and do whatever he can to get what he wants, but he isn’t leaving his wife.
You are out for a heartbreak. I know. I have been there.
Why were you surprised that this man cheated on his wife “many times”? Each time he agreed to see you he was cheating on her.
Something about your letter bothers me. It is that I fail to believe that in such a small island as ours, it took you a year to find out this man was married. You never even once visited his home? If you never did, weren’t you curious as to why he never invited you?
That aside, I hope the individual to whom you have addressed your note at the end sees this letter – as you are expecting her to. Bear in mind, there is no guarantee she will.
By the way, your advice is sound: married men hardly ever leave their wives and this man probably has no plans to leave his.