WOMEN NEED TO STOP crying down men because they are not perfect. Every week some woman talks about how some man did this and did that to them, but they need to ask themselves why he did it, and what the woman before her would have done him.
What happens to women happens to men, but women try to make it look like men are the worst people on God’s earth, and yet some of them have done far more hurtful things.
My children’s mother and I were together from schooldays; I loved her a lot and was going to marry her. We had two children and had a lovely home which I worked to build, or should I say, almost killed myself to build.
Don’t get me wrong, she was the brains behind it – she forced me to get a house as we were living at family and that was not good.
So the house came and she decorated it nice and fancy; it became a home. At that time we were both working but I paid all the bills and shopped almost every week. And I still gave her money because I worked for more money than she did and I loved her. I even gave her a nice little car to drive – so she had hers and I had mine.
This woman got everything that she wanted and more and then trouble started; friends came into the picture and the police, too.
I started to see a change in her so I sat her down and talked with her. All the while she was telling me I was wrong, but I wasn’t. To make a long story short, she had a man on me.
Would you believe that after everything came out she would let the man come home with her every
day from work and allow our children to see her kissing another man, not to mention everyone else.
She just stopped caring for us and only for herself. I came home one day from work and found his clothes on the line and his food cooked. Well, I would not have to tell you how I got on. So she called the police for me.
It got to a situation that she called them for me far more often than the home phone would ring for me.
The move that hurt the most, though, was when I got a letter from her attorney telling me that I had to leave because the house is on her family’s land and I don’t have any say. And to show how spiteful she was, while I was reading the letter she was in front of me with a smile on her face telling me I had to go.
As for our kids, I could not believe that because she left me for another man that she would treat our two children in the manner that she did. She would always be shouting at them; she even stopped carrying them anywhere, and I was left to deal with them.
I make sure I get home early from work to help them with their homework. I make sure that they are not hungry; I bathe and put them to sleep by a certain time.
I take them for doctor’s visits, too – I am now playing the part of mother and father because their mother, the woman that I had loved so much, has picked up a drunkard.
Now tell me, how must I treat the next woman that comes along in my life?
Should I treat them the same way or don’t give a damn about them?
I have two beautiful children that I love more than anything in this world, but as for their mother, she can keep the man that she has.
I love my children and they love me more than ever because I am always there for them.
