DEAR CHRISTINE, I became very attached to a man who worked in the same company with me before it closed down. The man I am talking about went on to get another job.
He feels he can get me a post in the new company, but I am hesitating, as I am afraid that what was a harmless attachment could turn into something more serious.
You see, I don’t think either of us realised how much we cared for each other while we were together. It makes me believe that “absence makes the heart grow fonder”.
We got on very well, though there was never a question about sex as we are both married. I have a good husband and three fine children but I seem unable to get this man off my mind. What can I do?
– L.K.
Dear L.K.,
What you should not do is to take up any post this man obtains for you. Since there is still this great attraction to him and vice-versa, the once harmless attachment is no longer harmless. It would be very risky for you.
Please hold out a little longer for your husband, your three fine children, and believe it or not, for your own happiness’ sake.
Time will help you to take care of your longing if you make an effort to concentrate on your own legitimate family.
I am counting on you. What’s more, those dear people of yours (in their innocence of your thoughts) are counting on you to remain a faithful wife and a devoted mother.
– CHRISTINE
