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DEAR CHRISTINE: Lover shares bed with child mother


DEAR CHRISTINE: Lover shares bed with child mother

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Dear Christine,

I REALLY LOVE a young man who tells me he loves me, but he also lives at another woman’s house. She has a child for him. I try to get him to come and live with me all the time or for me to come and live with him, but he keeps making excuses.

He says he does not know what I am worrying about, as even though they sleep on the same bed, they do not make love.

Sometimes he brings some of his clothes for me to wash and I found a love letter in one of his pants. I asked him about it and he said it meant nothing to him.

I am worried, even though he says this girl is chasing him and that he does not sleep with the child’s mother. Tell me what to do.

– M.J.

Dear M.J.,

Take the blindfold from off your eyes. The quicker you see the light, the better.

It’s hard to swallow that he is sharing a bed with his child’s mother and yet not having sex with her, isn’t it? In the same vein, I find it hard to believe the love letter means nothing to him. Is he worth it?

Let him go before you get in any deeper, then cannot find a way out.