Dear Christine, My boyfriend moved in with me seven months before our wedding date. Five weeks later, he said he wanted to wait for another year because he was not ready.
A couple weeks later, he said it was best for him to move out and go back home with his parents.
I was very upset about his change of mind, but I told myself it was better to have this happen now, than for him to walk away from the marriage.
Three weeks ago, he said he wanted to move back in and that we would marry next year. I am not sure I should let him move back in with me. My family says I shouldn’t and that I should break things off altogether.
– C.G.
Dear C.G., I agree with your family 100 per cent. Let him stay put. He’ll probably move back in, get comfortable and leave you again without setting a wedding date. I don’t think he should be trusted. If, however, you are willing to give him another chance, make sure you do not live under the same roof with him unless you are married to him.
– CHRISTINE
