Dear Christine,
I’ve got a problem and I need your advice.
I am 19 years old and I’ve been seeing a fellow for the past six months. He is 23.
Christine, this man is nice and considerate, but he is very boring. He never has one interesting thing to say and he is always ready for an argument. I am a pretty friendly young woman and whenever he meets any of my friends – male or female – he gets very upset.
Quite recently, I met a guy who is 25 years old and he is very friendly.
He says he loves me and I love him too, although I have not told him as yet.
Don’t you think I should express my feelings for him and finish with the other guy? I need to get out of this boring mess.
– G.A.
Dear G.A.,
What are you waiting for? What’s stopping you from getting out of the mess? Clearly, you and this guy are opposites and opposites rarely find pleasure in being together.
You also don’t seem to have much in common. It is better that you go your separate ways. Stop leading him along and put the brakes on the relationship as soon as you can. Obviously, your happiness depends on this.
There is no reason, however, why you cannot remain good friends, minus any romance.
– CHRISTINE
